Saturday, February 28, 2009

Some men irritate me

They really do. I’m so sick and tired of the “oh you’re a pretty girl. Let’s hook up” emails I keep getting.

And they think that these emails will get me to contact them back. Why?

They would get a lot further with “hey, how’s life? My name is xxx. I live in xxx. I enjoy xxx. I saw your site/blog/myspace and we have xxxx in common. Let’s talk”. That type of email would get them a lot further.

Not that I’m trying to meet men on the internet. I just like making friends online and I’m always open to meeting new people. I have lots of email friends.

I did have an “online romance” once with a really great guy, it lasted for 2 years (we emailed every day for 10 months before I would give him my phone number and at 15 months, I finally let him know where I live). But it didn’t work out and we’re still friends.

It just amazes me how many guys think they’ll drop you a message and you’ll hook up with them. Do woman actually do that? I mean if it’s your thing, so be it, to each their own. But it’s just not for me.

So, if you’re going to email me, keep a few things in mind.

#1- I DO NOT HOOK UP. So don’t waste your time.

#2- I DO like hearing from people and striking up friendships. But again, only expect a friendship and don’t hope for anything more.

#3- Have something to say. If you email me with “oh you’re a pretty girl” and nothing else, I will not reply.

Just had to get this off my chest. It’s really irritating to get those empty emails and messages.

Jen

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